
✂️ Closure or Cutoff? Understanding the Difference Between These Two Magical Rituals
🌕 Introduction
You want to turn the page, free yourself from a toxic relationship, or simply move on… and you hear about closure rituals and ties-cutting rituals .
But wait… is it the same?
Spoiler: No. Not at all.
And if you want to do things right, powerfully and aligned , it is important to choose the right ritual for the right intention .
In this article, we will dissect together the real difference between a closing ritual and a ties-cutting ritual, with gentleness, awareness... and a touch of sarcasm from a tired but lucid witch. 🖤
🔒 The closing ritual: saying goodbye without slamming the door
A closing ritual is like consciously closing a chapter of your life. You don't want to erase the past, you just want to put it there , and not carry it around with you anymore .
It's not a sudden ending. It's a deliberate ending , sometimes gentle, sometimes melancholic, but always soothing.
✨ It is used to:
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Accepting the end of a cycle, a relationship, a project
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Let go with peace of mind what no longer has a place
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Free yourself from attachment, regret, the need for response
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Symbolize an important transition
🔮 Ideal for:
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A past relationship, but still emotionally present
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An abandoned dream, a friendship that has died, a move
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An old version of you that you're ready to leave behind
🕯️ Example of ritual:
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Write a letter to the person or situation.
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Light a white or black candle.
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Read it aloud (or in your head, if you have a judgmental cat).
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Burn it. Let the ashes fly away, or bury them.
💧 To accompany you:
Use the magic oil Bye Bye Toxic Love .
Apply it to your wrists or heart, breathe deeply, and say to yourself, “I release this connection to nothingness. I am free.”
✂️ The ritual of cutting ties: cut cleanly, without looking back
This is where we enter the big league. Cutting ties is the radical ritual.
You no longer want any connection, even energetic . You want to break , tear off , melt the chains . Even invisible ones. Even karmic ones.
⚡ It is used to:
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Detach yourself from a toxic bond that is still active
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Breaking an emotional, emotional or energetic dependency
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Stop a vampiric, heavy link that is holding you back
🔥 Ideal for:
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An unhealthy relationship (even if you're still in love, yes)
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Someone who keeps coming back to your mind or energy
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An attachment that you know is destructive, but that you can't let go of
🕯️ Example of ritual:
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Take two candles (yours and the other) connected by a string.
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Turn on both.
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Cut the string with a knife (or let the fire do the work).
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Visualize: the connection breaks, the energy returns to you.
🔥 To accompany you:
Banishing Oil Gets out and lets jump .
Apply to the string, to your candle, or in a protective circle around you.
Use with firmness, power, and a really badass playlist.
🎯 How to choose between fencing and cutting?
Your intention | Your ritual |
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I want to turn the page in peace | Fence |
I want to free myself from an active toxic bond | Cut |
I mourn a past that I have accepted | Fence |
I still feel a grip, a pain, a dependence | Cut |
💡 Tip: You can do a closure first , then a cut if the energy returns or resists.
Sometimes you have to close the door and then turn off the doorbell.
🛍️ My magical creations to help you
Here are two allies for your liberation rituals, to be found in my Lili Sélénée boutique:
💔 Bye Bye Toxic Love Magic Oil
To close a bond with gentleness, peace and tenderness for yourself.
A scent of rebirth, a hint of courage, and a lot of "enough is enough now."
🔥 Banishing Oil Get out and let it jump
For those times when you really need to get it out of your energy field.
Straightforward, no unnecessary drama. Just: outside .
🌕 Conclusion
Performing a magical ritual isn't just about lighting a candle to look pretty on Instagram.
It's setting an intention.
It is affirming that you choose your inner peace .
It’s saying to the universe (and to yourself): “I am ready to break free.”
As you opt for a soft fence or a sharp cut , remember:
You deserve lightness. You deserve peace. And you deserve to feel powerful.
And if you can do it by embalming yourself in magic oils and defiantly gazing at the moon... well, that's even better.